Do not regard those who do not share your ideals as your friends.
The Confucian Analects
The friendship between Superior Men seems as Commonplace as water; the friendship between Inferior Men seems as exhilarating as wine.
Juang Jou
When Superior Men cease to be friends, they do not speak ill of one another.
The History of Warring States
Those who come together because of power and gain become estranged when these things no longer exist.
Symma Chian
Forget not the friends whom you have made in mean circumstances; desert not the wife whom you have married in poor circumstances.
The History of Latter Hann Dynasty
When things are done in great haste the work cannot be thorough; yielding to temptation of small gains great ends fail to accomplish.
The Confucian Analects
A truly great man is one who preserve the heart of a new-born babe.
Mencius
When the ruler's conduct is virtuous, he gets his wishes done without asking. If his conduct is not virtuous, he cannot get his wishes done even though he asks.
Confucius
Good government depends on men.
The Doctrine of Harmonious Life
In the constitution of a State, the people constitute the most important element. The Gods of Land and Grain come next in importance. The least important of all is the Sovereign.
Mencius
An oppressive Government is worse than a ferocious tiger.
Mencius
Happiness or unhappiness depends on one's own effort.
Mencius
Hearing one hundred times is not as convincing as seeing once.
The History of Hann Dynasty
Better be dull and sincere than clever and false.
Liou Shiang
Hanker not after wealth and honour, nor be disheartened by poverty and failure.
The History of Hann Dynasty
High position and large fortune endanger the life of their possessor.
The History of Latter Hann Dynasty
Plenitude causes diminution; humility begets augmentation.
The Book of History
All successes in his world must depend on diligence and preseverance.
Wang Tong
All failures in this world are due to indolence and selfishness.
Jwu Shi
He who can derive a new understanding rom old knowledge is qualified to teach others.
Confucius
Hearing is not as good as seeing; seeing is not as good as knowing; knowing is not as good as doing.
Shyun Kuang
As regards learning one will deteriorate unless he keeps on advancing all the time.
Tzuoo Tzongtarng
When one fails to exercise influence on other men, it must be because he himself is not earnest enough.
Jwu Shi
The more one learns the more he realizes his own insufficiency.
The Book of Propriety
If one is not studious when young, he will have learned nothing when old.
Confucius
Learning without thinking begets no understanding; thinking without learning begets mental exhaustion.
Confucius
If a man can constantly practice what he has learned, is he not happy?
Confucius
The fault of men is that they do not practise what they have learned.
Juang Jou
To be learned and wise thus makes life secure.
The Book of Poetry
When one is loved his faults are overlooked; when one is hated his virtues are overlooked.
The History of Hann Dynasty
The mutual respect between consorts is the first rule of propriety.
The Book of Propriety
When persons of the same family inter-marry they cannot be prolific.
Tzuoo Chiouming
The Superior Man is a master of things, and he never becomes a slave of things.
Goan Jong
When two minds are in perfect accord, their sharpness can penetrate metal.
The Book of Change
The wise has no delusion; the virtuous has no anxieties; the courageous has no fears.
Confucius
The Superior Men can be persuaded by righteousness while the Inferior Men can be persuaded only by gain.
The Confucian Analects
The Superior Man is always calm and contented, while the Inferior Man is full of anxieties.
Confucius
My conscience is like a balance which cannot be either lowered or raised because of men.
Juger Liang
When water is clear even minute hair can be visualized; when mind is clear even heavenly principles can be apprehended.
Cherng Haw
The minds of men are as different as their faces.
Tzuoo Chiouming
Without exertion one tends to become more indolent; without restraint one tends to become more dissolute.
Jwu Shi
The sorrows of man are concomitant with his life.
Juang Jou
Excess is just as bad as deficiency.
Confucius
When the advance is quick the retreat is also rapid.
Mencius
Diseases enter through the mouth; calamities emanate from the mouth.
Fuh Yih
Nature makes all men alike; habits make all men different.
The Confucian Analects
It is a lifelong disgrace for an official to accept a single bribe.
Jenq Jiuun
An opportunity never comes twice.
The History of Hann Dynasty
Youth never comes twice, nor one day has two morns; exert your best when you ought, for time will wait for no man.
Taur Chyan
In a clear mirror we can see how we look, and from the past events we can learn how to deal with the present.
Confucius
The future will regard the present in much the same way as the present regards the past.
The History of Hann Dynasty
Do not expert to find perfection in any man.
The Confucian Analects
Poverty is the lot of scholars; death is the fate of all men.
Confucius
The Superior Man is worried about Truth and not about poverty.
Confucius
One need not feel ashamed because of poverty. What is truly shameful is poor without ambition. One need not feel disgusted because of meanness. What is truly detestable is mean without ability.
Leun Kuen
When Heaven wants certain men to achieve great Things, he will first make them go through great mental and physical hardships. He subjects them to acute pain and distress. He places obstacles and disappointments in their way. All these are for the purpose of stimulating their minds, sustaining their original goodness, and Augmenting their competencies.
Mencius
When one is fully prepared he can be free from worries.
Tzuoo Chiouming
Before entering a state learn about its laws; before entering a village learn about its customs; before entering a home learn about its taboos.
The Book of Propriety
Do not look at what is contrary to propriety; do not listen to what is contrsry to propriety; do not speak about what is contrary to propriety; do not act upon what is contrary to propriety.
The Confucian Analects
He who is fond of ease seldom has lofty aims.
Confucius
He who possesses virtues will prosper; he who relies on violence will perish.
Symma Chian
To punish people without previous warning means tyranny.
The Confucian Analects
Return wrong with right.
The Confucian Analects
He who loves others is often loved; he who respects others is often respected.
Mencius
Hevean rewards the virtuous with fortune; Hevean punishes the evil with misfortune.
Confucius
The rule of Heaven is extensive and comprehensive; slow but certain.
Lao Dan
In order to be able to give, it is first necessary to save.
The Book of Propriety
He who wishes to put his family in good order must first cultivate his own self.
The Book of Propriety
To stop slanderous talks nothing is better than self-cultivation.
Shyu Gann
A man must have despised himself before he is despised by others.
Mencius
Fortune or misfortune is caused by one's own doing.
Liou An
One must learn how to serve before he can be served.
The Book of Propriety
Sincerity can penetrate through mental and stone.
Tzeng Gwofarn
How to stop slander? Do not dispute. How to stop complaint? Do not contend.
Wang Tong
As regards soldiers quality is more important than number, and spirit is more important than strength.
Goan Jong
Be quick in action and discreet in speech.
The Confucian Analects
The Superior Men do not trust a man because of his words, nor do they spurn good words because of his bad character.
The Confucian Analects
The Superior Man talks little but his words are ture; the Inferior Man talks much but his words are false.
Liou Shiang
Be the first in action and the last in talking.
Leu Kuen
In all undertakings success depends on preparations, without which there can be only failure.
The Doctrine of Harmonious Life
The trouble with most men is that like to teach others.
Mencius
The Sage does not covet a foot of jade but he regards as most precious an inch of time.
Liou An
Those who are after great achievements do not mind small grudges against them.
The History of Latter Hann Dynasty
They who merely know virtue are not equal to those who love it; they who love virtue are not equal to those who enjoy it.
The Confucian Analects
In performing duties one should ignore gain and loss; in estimating men's worth one should overlook success and failure.
Leu Kuen
Let not your mouth utter evil words; let not your ears receive evil words.
Deng Shi
The wealth that is ill gotten will also be ill spent.
The Book of Propriety
Riches and honours acquired by unrighteous means are to me as empty as floating clouds.
Confucius
When the talented possesses excessive wealth it may weaken his ambition; when the stupid possesses excessive wealth it may increase his faults.
The History of Hann Dynasty
With determination and perseverance one can eventually achieve success.
The History of Latter Hann Dynasty
When an artist wishes to do good work he must first sharpen his tools.
The Confucian Analects
One must regard the youth with awe. How do we know that the new generation will not excel the old? But if after the age of forty or fifty one still has not distinguished himself, he may no longer be regarded with awe.
Confucius
A youth when at home should practise filial piety; and when abroad, fraternal love. He should be earnest, sincere, loving to all but associate himself noly with the virtuous. When he is able to do all these, he should employ his leisure in polite studies.
Confucius
The administration of good advice is more valuable to men than a gift of precious jems.
Shyun Kuang
There are three things which the Superior Man guards against: In youth the blood is coursing hot in the veins, he guards against lust. In middle age when blood is full and strong,he guards against quarrelsomeness. In old age when blood is thin, he guards against avariciousness.
Confucius
One need not lament over old age; what is really lamentable is that years have been ill spent. One need not mourn over death; what is really mournful is that death has left nothing memorable.
Leu Kuen
The acquisition of wealth is good when it enables owner to help the needy; otherwise he will become a mere slave of his wealth.
The History of Latter Hann Dynasty
Those who feel contented cannot be lured away by the temptation of power and gain.
Liou An
Blame not other men when you have committed wrong; pray not to Heaven when you have invited punishment.
Shyun Kuang
Under a good Government it is shameful to be poor and humble; under a bad Government it is shameful to be rich and powerful.
The Confucian Analects